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Marriage Counseling: The Help That Can Spell a Difference

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Marriage Counseling: The Help That Can Spell a Difference

 

It is said that it takes a lot for marriage work, but it can take much greater effort to save one from falling apart. With an alarming increase in divorce statistics, marriage counseling may be the potential help that can spell a huge difference in resolving marital issues. It may not be the only answer that can save a union on the brink of divorce, but counseling does have a high success rate. Although, some couples may feel that it is a waste of time, effort and money to seek counseling; marriage counseling statistics are encouraging, revealing that 97.1 percent of surveyed clients are satisfied with the kind of help marriage counseling provides.

 

In Good or Bad Times – For Better or For Worse

The marriage lane is strewn with many roadblocks along the way. Even a marriage touted to be “made in heaven” can hit a rough patch. Marriage can indeed be tiring, frustrating and require a lot of work to live “happily ever after.” What marriage has not encountered a few challenges? These challenges come in all shapes and sizes, ranging from finances to physical abuse to emotional health issues. Couples may easily find solution to some of these challenges, but there are other issues that may be too difficult to tackle and may even lead to its end.

Marriage can also be stressful. At the rate household roles and workplace expectations are fast shifting, more couples are finding every opportunity to stay aligned with their partner. Parenthood can drastically change many aspects of a couple’s relationship, whether it is about day-to-day activities or building a road map of your future. The demands of a growing family can cause couples to struggle in finding time and energy for each other. This transition period may become a prime breeding ground for disappointment, infidelity, emotional disconnection, and intimacy issues.

On the other hand, some relationships remain healthy through the years, yet couples still aspire to increase intimacy or find new ways to connect with each other to keep their relationship thriving. Your marriage may have survived the most harrowing challenges, but it does not mean you will stop seeking means to improve your relationship even if you believe it is a strong one. The longer you have been married, the more you should fiercely guard, protect and nurture it before anything consumes it apart.

The details are different for every marriage, but ultimately, it is up to couples to stay together through good and bad times, for better or for worse. The good news is that there is help available, whether you want to save a sinking relationship or strengthen your union. Either of which, seeking marriage counseling can help you come out stronger in working toward your relationship being the way you envisioned it.

 

What is Marriage Counseling?

Marriage counseling is often referred to interchangeably with the terms couples therapy and relationship counseling. Regardless of what it is called, this form of therapy is conducted by a licensed counselor to help people in committed relationships. It usually involves both partners and is most effective when they attend the sessions together, although there are instances when the counselor may work with each spouse separately.

Marriage counseling is beneficial for married or unmarried people in many different kinds of relationships. It supports couples in moving toward a lasting marriage by helping them to recognize the underlying cause of their marital conflict and discord so they can improve their relationship. It is usually short-term therapy with a few sessions involving both or one of the spouses to resolve relationship issues, reinforce their emotional bonds, or find amicable ways to settle, should they decide to bring the marriage to an end.

Couples often seek marriage counseling for various reasons. This may include typical marital problems, such as loss of communication or infidelity, a tragedy in the family, illness, and more. Counseling aims to provide the tools needed for couples to function effectively within their relationship. It is important for couples to recognize the fact that their marriage is in trouble and both partners must have the commitment to save it. Admitting this is the first step in making the decision to seek marriage counseling and the need for outside help that may spell a difference in restoring the relationship.

 

Common Marital Issues Resolved through Counseling

The goal of most couples deciding to seek marriage counseling is to save their marriage. For others, however, there are specific issues that impel them to seek therapy. Admittedly, marriage counseling is not an overnight quick-fix solution. With dedication and effort on the part of couples going to therapy, a positive result can be achieved on issues that brought them to the decision to seek counseling. This includes:

  • Infidelity
  • Negative communication
  • Substance abuse
  • Challenging parenting situations
  • Intimacy issues
  • Marital conflicts and resentment
  • Blended families
  • Trust issues
  • Grieving a loss
  • Deciding on separation or divorce
  • Anger issues
  • Before major life changes

 

It is easy to conceive of marriage counseling as the last resort considered by couples on the verge of divorce or those struggling in an unhappy marriage. While counseling is beneficial for couples deciding to separate on respectful terms, it is also a proactive step to strengthen marital bonds by helping couples gain a deeper understanding of each other.

Individuals engaged to be married may also benefit from premarital counseling to help them explore areas of conflict or concern as potential causes of difficulty or dissatisfaction. It can help them work out their differences, personal values and expectations. More importantly, it allows them to evaluate their compatibility prior to marriage.

Like in any partnership, marriage counseling can be most effective if both partners have the same commitment to work on their marriage and stick to the treatment plan. If one partner is reluctant to participate in therapy or only expects their spouse to change, the effectiveness of the approach is greatly reduced.

 

The Time to Seek Help

A marital relationship is like an engine that propels your lives. Any trouble can impact your ability to go forward. Your marriage may need “maintenance” to infuse your relationship with renewed enthusiasm. You could use some assistance from a credible marriage counselor to help put your marriage back in good shape again.

Many marriages need some help. There is no need to delay seeking help as soon as you recognize the symptoms of trouble in your marriage or if an issue has become a full-blown crisis. Research shows that couples wait an average of six years before seeking marriage counseling. Unfortunately, the longer you delay reaching out for help, the more it becomes difficult to mend or resolve the issues plaguing your marriage.

There is no shame and there is no need to feel guilty about seeking marriage counseling. The intervention of a professional can be incredibly beneficial in pulling your marriage back from the brink of breakup. The right fit counselor independently contracted with Carolina Counseling Services Cameron, NC, on Hwy 87, near Linden Oaks can help you recover what you think you have lost forever in your relationship.

Call now to schedule an appointment for couples counseling services offered by an experienced counselor/therapist independently contracted with Carolina Counseling Services – Cameron, NC, on Hwy 87, near Linden Oaks.

 

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Serving Areas: Carolina Counseling Services

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Areas: Cameron NC, Linden Oaks NC, Sprout Springs NC, Anderson Creek NC, Olivia NC, Pineview NC, Johnsonville NC, Spring Lake NC

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Rose Thomas, MA, LPC, LCAS, NCC

Specializes in: (Ages 5+) Children, Teens, Individuals, Couples and Families. Anxiety, Depression, ODD (Oppositional Defiance Disorder, ADHD, Relationship Issues, Marriage Counseling, Parenting, PTSD/Trauma Recovery, Acute Stress Disorder, Adult Sexual Abuse Survivors, Adjustment Disorders, Depressive Disorders, Persistent Depressive Disorder, Bipolar and Related Disorders, Self-injurious/Self-Harm, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, Panic Disorder, Agoraphobia, Separation Anxiety, Disruptive Disorders, Conduct Disorder, Marital Conflict and Discord, LGBT, Substance Use Disorders
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Carolina Counseling Services - Cameron, NC
Shirlisa Daniels, MS, LPC, NCC

 

Often in our busy lives we all find ourselves feeling stuck and needing to speak to someone. Someone to share our hopes and goals as well as our fears and doubts. I strive to create an environment of acceptance and a safe place to discuss your innermost feelings and emotions.

My goal is to provide you with an encouraging, safe, and judgment-free environment where you can talk freely about what you’re experiencing and learn how to work with those issues and concerns so that you can function better in your life. Call me today so we can begin our journey together.

Specialties/ Issues: Children 4+, Teens, Adults and Individuals, Families, Anxiety Disorders, Depression, Panic Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, ADHD, ODD, PTSD, Relationship Issues, Conflict Resolution and Life Transitions.

Personal Information: In practice since 2013; Schools: University of Alabama; Graduated 2008, Texas A&M University-Central Texas; Graduated 2013. Licenses: North Carolina, #13332

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