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Families are as unique as their individual members. This uniqueness can challenge us to learn and grow, it can also naturally create conflict.  Because the love is strong, conflicts and misunderstandings can be more emotionally charged and upsetting. Conflicts are unavoidable. Your family will have many reasons to laugh, just as you will have countless opportunities to differ and to disagree.

You can, however, proactively resolve these conflicts with family counseling. Family counseling or family therapy is intended to assist families in working through their concerns by addressing communication challenges and individual differences. With counseling you can grow stronger together.

Family therapy is proactive. You don’t have to wait for a concern to become more complicated to seek help from a family counselor. There are many ways you can benefit from therapy.

Family Counseling Can:

1. Improve communication.

Most conflicts start with poor communication. Family counseling can help clarify the meanings to prevent miscommunication. It can help improve communication to make it build rather than destroy relationships. It can offer ways to say or do things with sensitivity and with respect for the other family members.

2. Help in accepting a serious medical diagnosis.

Serious medical conditions can be devastating. It can impact their finances. Counseling can give you a safe place to process your intense emotions. You can find hope and ways to support each other.

3. Help you to process trauma. 

All families can face a series of challenges at one time or another. Sometimes, “when it rains, it pours.” If your family experiences a traumatic event you can benefit from support. Together, you can process what happened and find ways to move forward. 

4. Prevent drifting apart.

Some families grow distant when they are confronted with overwhelming conflicts and problems. This does not have to be the case.  A neutral venue provided by a family therapist can help facilitate conflict resolution through open, but guided conversations.

5. Improve self-esteem.

Low self-esteem can stand in the way of having a personal successful life and career as well as healthy relationships. Feeling defeated, the ones who are struggling with low self-esteem are likely to take out their frustration on their family. Thus, poor self-esteem can also stand in the way of having and enjoying a healthy family relationship. Family counseling can help each member improve themselves individually to strengthen the whole unit.

6. Resolve conflict.

“Sleeping on issues” is deemed unhealthy by some, but it is something that many do – especially when the other party is a family member. After a shouting match, it is often assumed that the conflict will resolve on its own and that things will go back to normal. Unfortunately, this isn’t always the case. With a family counselor, you can learn conflict resolution skills that can make a world of difference.

7. Help the family adjust during life transitions.

Changes and transitions can be very challenging. Counseling can help you process this change and find ways to move forward with hope. 

8. Strengthen families during the good times.

Family counseling isn’t just for families having a tough time. It is also for families who want to keep their relationships strong. It is for families who want to keep their conflicts resolved, big or small. You don’t have to wait for things to become unmanageable to learn valuable relationship skills. Counseling is never an exercise in futility.

9. Help develop a strong support system, especially when one has an emotional condition.

Depression and anxiety can bring up many questions. One that is often asked is how you can support a family member who has symptoms of a mental health condition. A skilled family therapist can help to answer these questions and more. Counseling can’t solve every concern your family may have, but it can help build a strong support system that can carry you through the dark days. Facilitated dialogues can lead to increased understanding of the individual member’s challenges and ways to provide support.

10. Facilitate healthy relationships.

As mentioned many times already, counseling can help you to learn valuable relationship and communication skills. These skills can help to improve your family relationships as well as other important relationships in your life. 

Your family isn’t perfect, but it’s the only one you have. Conflicts aren’t unusual, but they can cause you to drift, weakening your support system. This is why family counseling can be so important. Carolina Counseling Services – Cameron, NC contracts with skilled counselors that can help. Call today to get started!

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