Help For Families who live with Deployments

Some military personnel are called to serve in another place far from their families. During this time, they are separated not only physically, but also emotionally from their loved ones. The challenges and emotional impact are considerable both on the deployed service member and their families.

Military Families and Deployment

Studies show that families face diverse stressors throughout the deployment cycle. Spouses and other family members worry about the safety of their service member. What can further complicate this is that there may be no end date in sight, or the date of their return may be more of a moving target. Additionally, being left at home means that most tasks fall upon you. This can be remarkably overwhelming and isolating all at the same time, even with a strong support system. Communication can be sparse and difficult.

Children also face a variety of challenges during the absence of their parent as well. They may act out behaviorally, feeling abandoned, especially if deployments are frequent. Children may struggle to focus at school and even withdraw socially. They may rebel against the parent who stays behind. Concerning behaviors may emerge during this time as well.

The Military Offers Help

The military does try to offer support surrounding deployments. While this can be helpful, it may not feel like enough. Some may be reluctant to participate also for a variety of reasons. It is important to get the support you need and deserve during this difficult time. You also have a right to decide what kind of help is best for you.

Counseling as a Support

Counseling can provide a safe, non-judgmental space for you to take a breath and process how you feel. When you find the therapist that is right for you, you will know. Finding a therapist who is aware of the unique challenges that military families face may be an additional factor to consider. It can feel easier to share about your experience when you know your therapist has experience working with individuals in your situation.

Carolina Counseling Services – Cameron, NC contracts with therapists who understand the challenges of military life. Call today to schedule your first appointment.